Friday, November 16, 2007
I've come to realize that, plenty of people (NOT ALL), whenever they aren't into their comfort zone - meaning something is bothering them - they tend to want to come to me alot. Girl problems. Guy problems. Political Problems. Keeping Secrets. Whatever.
However, once they've gotten over whatever the heck they were having problems with, they tend not to need me anymore. Not to the extent of ignoring me, but just not as close as I think I might be with them (while they were having problems)
Its okay if you do something you perceive to be good, and not get reciprocated for it. But to the extent of wearing out your usefulness just feels absolutely lame.
Next PointNever get too close to anyone of the opposite gender. Sure, I agree that a guy and a girl can be just friends. Its actually simple. But when you get too close, two different things may happen.
One.
You become so close to a girl, that you end up thinking that you like her or even worse, you may get the idea that they think you might be very important to them. But really, you don't want to (like them). For some magical reason, the girl you get too close to always has something going on that makes the circumstances difficult for you if you think you might want to have a shot at her.
Two.
You get so close to a girl that you ACTUALLY like, that you end up being just another one of their girlfriends. You know you're too late or you messed up somewhere then. It comes to a point, where she tells you alot of stuff; stuff that, If you wanted to be with her, she wouldnt tell you, OR, you wouldnt want to know.
The main cause for this situation this is timing. Dwell around her too long or choose too long to wait to tell her or even hint that you like her, will ensure nothing but failure for you. p.s. - I didnt bold the last part by accident
will YOU be my escape?
11:07:00 pm
